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ItalianoBeing Chosen as Dom: The Joy of Giving and the Weight of Trust
| This topic came up frequently in the last two weeks and I'd like to share my perspective. To me, being chosen as someone's dom is more than agreeing to be kinky together. It carries a deep meaning. First and foremost, there's the immense gratitude I feel for earning someone's trust and understanding. It's a privilege I never take for granted. Secondly, I relish devoting myself to ensure the safety, pleasure, and happiness of my subs. This is a commitment that truly fulfills me. It's about listening, creating a safe space for them to be themselves and forget about the rest of the world, and fostering a connection that grows stronger over time. I show my sincere gratitude for their choice by being there when they need me and they keep choosing me because I am there for them. This is a virtuous cycle of pleasure. However, responsibility comes with the sub's trust. When considering something new, it is the dom's responsibility to learn how to do it safely and thoughtfully. The sub's boundaries and needs come before the ego and eagerness of the dom. Open communication and a willingness to learn are essential on both sides. This allows the sub to fully trust me as dom and surrender to me. A dom cannot say "I didn't know" when he did not even put the effort to ask the sub or read about the topic. That's the mark of someone who doesn't appreciate the role. Do you think I'm taking my role too seriously? |
Tillagd 14 sep 13:42 Kultur- och faktaartiklar #BDSM #Dominant #Vår kultur #Annan som bottom #dominance
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